Everything Your Freshman Needs for Life in the Dorm
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Everything Your Freshman Needs for Life in the Dorm

August 8, 2016 These days, it’s infinitely easier to outfit your kids for dorm life than it was when you and I went to college. Before the dawn of online shopping, I remember how my parents searched for extra-large boxes and an old-fashioned steamer trunk large enough to hold bedding, lamps, wall decorations, posters, and…

Tales from the Trenches: Tweens, Teens, and Hormones
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Tales from the Trenches: Tweens, Teens, and Hormones

September 15, 2016 For nearly two years, we thought maybe my daughter was possessed. It felt like every interaction consisted of a sneer and a critical comment. Our family started to wonder if she’d somehow swapped bodies with an angry badger. Then it happened. She started her period. And everything changed again. Here’s the weird…

5 Reasons Why Taking Risks is Important
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5 Reasons Why Taking Risks is Important

June 5, 2021 Life is short—yet many of us spend time wondering what we should do with our lives, rather than actually going out there and trying. As hockey legend Wayne Gretzky once said, “You miss 100 percent of the shots you don’t take.” It’s important to actually strike out and follow your heart—even if…

Get Around the Grumps: Four Non-verbal Techniques
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Get Around the Grumps: Four Non-verbal Techniques

October 19, 2016 A few weeks ago, when some friends and I were venting about the chaos of raising kids, dodging hormones, and generally just surviving until their eighteenth birthday, my friend told us about her easy-going child who occasionally sits on the couch and melts down. What struck me about her comments wasn’t that…

Taking Back the Holidays: Letting Go of Stressors
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Taking Back the Holidays: Letting Go of Stressors

November 25, 2016 This fall season passed with all the subtly and speed of a runaway train. I can’t believe that we are staring the holiday season in the face. I recently found myself thinking about all of the things I have—and haven’t—accomplished in the last two months. Then it occurred to me: Thanksgiving hasn’t even passed and…

Put That On Your Christmas Card: Wacky Holiday Traditions
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Put That On Your Christmas Card: Wacky Holiday Traditions

December 5, 2016 It’s the holiday season again. Deck the halls. Hang the stockings with care. Roast the chestnuts. Traditions are everywhere. You probably have a variety of activities you do with your kids. Our family has several traditions: everyone gets new pajamas on Christmas Eve, for example, and we always go out to see the Christmas lights. I was…

The “Growth Mindset” Classroom: What It Is and Isn’t
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The “Growth Mindset” Classroom: What It Is and Isn’t

January 12, 2017 In the last round of parent-teacher conferences last year, I heard my daughter’s teachers use the term growth mindset. You may have heard your children’s teachers (or your children themselves) talking about this approach as well. But what exactly is a growth mindset? It refers to psychologist Carol Dweck’s research on how people…

When Failure Leads to Success: What Studies Show Kids Need to Hear
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When Failure Leads to Success: What Studies Show Kids Need to Hear

January 10, 2017 Typical science textbooks or programs will tell you that Einstein received the Nobel Prize. That Marie Curie was the first woman granted a physics degree from the best college in France. Traditional education focuses on the achievements and accolades of famous scientists. Meanwhile, it’s a general trend that as students advance through middle…

Back to School: Make It a Great One For Your Middle School Child
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Back to School: Make It a Great One For Your Middle School Child

August 19, 2011 Most children entering middle school are facing major changes as they get ready for back to school. Lockers, fashion, the opposite sex, academics … all of these things can stress your child and make that transition to middle school harder. As a parent, we want to help our children make the transition…

The Candy Fairy is Coming to Town!
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The Candy Fairy is Coming to Town!

October 4, 2011 Ever heard of the Candy Fairy? You may want to incorporate this into your Halloween traditions. With the welcome arrival of cooler temperatures and the month of October, our thoughts turn to planning Halloween festivities, choosing costumes, and trick-or-treating with our children. Do you know how trick-or-treating got its start? Its beginnings…

Blog of the Week: Kiboomu Brings Music To Your Child
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Blog of the Week: Kiboomu Brings Music To Your Child

October 9, 2011 Congratulations to Kiboomu: the SocialMoms Blog of the Week! It’s no secret that children love signing. Whether it’s crooning to the songs on the radio, or chanting a nursery rhyme, kids learn and absorb a wealth of information via music. One site that brings music together with a variety of different printable…

Swear Words on T.V. Associated With Aggression in Kids
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Swear Words on T.V. Associated With Aggression in Kids

October 31, 2011 Children and teens exposed to profanity in television and video games are more likely to show aggressive behavior, according to research published in Pediatrics. The study looked at how kids viewed profanity and measured their aggression. They evaluated physical aggression, i.e. kicking or hitting others, as well as relational aggression. An example…

5 Out-of-the-Box Ways to Connect with your Teen, Tween and Young Kids
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5 Out-of-the-Box Ways to Connect with your Teen, Tween and Young Kids

November 1, 2011 As kids grow up it can be more and more difficult to find unique and fun ways to connect with them. I work with teens and tweens, and even as a 26-year-old, they are often more honest with me than most of their parents. I asked them what kinds of things they…