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All’s Not Fair in Love & Cheating – Men Less Likely to Forgive & Women More Likely to Lie
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7:46 pm
April 24, 2012


ChristinaB

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Cheating. It’s a scary word. When we think of a cheating partner, we usually think of it at a distance. It’s something that we’ve seen in a movie or heard that happened to one of our friends. Very seldom do we believe that cheating could happen in our own relationship.

I used to think like this…until it happened to me. In the grand scheme of things, there are far worse events that could happen than to discover that your partner hasn’t been faithful. But when it happens to you, it’s hard not to think that your entire world is falling…


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11:51 pm
May 8, 2012


fleecarlin

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Absolutely !  Been there.  It is better to know the truth, then to have to listen to so many lies and then have to PROVE it yourself.  That is the worst thing!Cry

2:05 pm
May 22, 2012


Caitlin2009

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Damn right i would wanna know! And i went through that with my ex alot who did that through our entire 7 year relationship, i had suspicions but he was clever enough to keep me from finding out. And i would never put up with that again, if my partner did that, then that would be it. i wouldnt be able to handle it if she did it, forgive her yeah but going back to her ehhh….i dunno. hopefully i'll never have to experiance that again *knocks on wood*

7:27 pm
June 14, 2012


Mommyme3

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I would want to know. Just the fact of knowing that your husband,wife or partner is/was cheating on you,is enough to make you sick. I know I would have to get out of that situation real quick.

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6:23 pm
June 27, 2012


mommafor3

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My husband of nearly 19 years did cheat on me a few years ago.  I don't excuse what he did, but I know that it the blame didn't rest solely with him.  I was not the wife that I should have been.  It's not one of those "it's my fault he beat me until I passed out, I burned the chicken" kind of things.  At the time, things between us were bad, and we were both at fault for that.  He also had horrible examples growing up of dealing with feelings and problems.  So not only was our home an unhappy place to be, but he had no real idea of how to deal with it.  If someone is unhappy enough…as they say, any port in a storm. We went to counseling and today our marriage is better than ever.

I'm not saying that everyone that gets cheated on has any blame in it, but it is important to be honest about what is going on in our relationships and our part of any problems that might be present.  

6:49 pm
July 7, 2012


AmorTig2

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Wow…this is a very intersting read! I'm in shock about the 8-15% statistic. That's crazy.

3:14 am
July 19, 2012


lovechocolate

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What I do know is that you really do not know how you will react until it happens to you! You might think you'll freak out and you'd call it quits, but you might find yourself doing quite different! On another note, is it cheating to remain in contact ( phone / text) with an ex?